(plz read a little slowly..not ficton...:_)
We always have been wishing and praying for things to happen. Do they really work? I wonder!!
I guess what works is actually "doing them" for real. People and by "people" I mean "us"(..Don’t get so frustrated nd start thinking the "who the hell r u?" stuff)...so I was saying we just want the things to happen. M not saying we don’t move a penny for it, but is it enough? Is it worth a "single" or a couple of tries??
Things are not so plain nd straight going some times...okay most of the times. What do we do . Pray? No. act? Yes. But my question is how far r u willing to drag this act of yours. You won’t succeed the first tym , I m sure. You will not succeed the second tym , I m hopeful, only if in the first place u had the guts to even try again. And if m lucky u will break couple of more tyms.
So now what?? I tried. I tried again, but what I got at the end-FAILURE. I did give my 100% but I failed again. Where is my reward? Well that’s what "you" think. You gave up just one step before u wud have actually got there. You backed down like millions others who didn’t have enuf determination to keep going. You were the same. Where was the reward. Well it "was" waiting for u . You just had to clear "all" the closed doors before it. And now u get to see a winner!!..And the biggest part it is "not you". Fortune always favours the brave.
Today nothing happens with a first try. It is obvious. People (again "we" :-) ) try a second tym and fail occasionally. This is the tym wen we actually prove ourselves and try for one more time. And not just one more time...any number of tyms that are required to reach our goal. And why not? Are we losing something? Are we not man enuf to face challenges? “Just, please, for the love of god, don’t waste your life on wishes.”
"Challenge your boundaries". Overcoming an obstacle doesn’t makes you great or a hero, what one might think, it only makes u deserving of the reward that others might only dream of.
We do say these things a lot.( again...I said "we") we post it in facebook. We like them. But what we never do is "apply to our lives".
You r not doing any favours on anyone by becoming an engineer. You r not achieving a "herculean" task by doing so as thought by many of my fellow mates. So stop making it into one. People have achieved so much that we as just simple engineers can’t think of.
We need to strive for knowledge, for intelligence, for success. You didn’t get into an IIT doesn’t means u have lost the right to do so. One should never give up on anything and anyone.
I never believed in luck or fate. You make yr own luck( at least that’s what I believe). But I also never gave everything to my goal. I tried once, again and that’s all. I believed in " everything’s gonna be alright". I thought “what happens is for the best”!!
Well times have changed. And so have I. now I believe in "making things happen ". Getting hold of my life. Marching forward with my head straight. Let’s see what I will get.....
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